Tuesday, September 27, 2016

Let's Talk Tuesday

I'm about to somewhat personal on here so beware. I'm not too sure if you've noticed, but I've been slacking. I've been slacking on my beloved blog, on my YouTube channel, and just life in general. I've been struggling lately with some things and it's gotten to the point where it's affected the things that I've enjoyed doing for so long. That's how I know it's become a real problem. I know that it's so easy for us to just put on a facade and put the best moments of our life on social media, making it seem like everything is all chipper and dandy. When in reality, there's so much more to it than just a perfect blogger with perfect clothes and perfect hair. I am a person, I'm a human being and I'm far from perfect. I struggle with everyday life and some moments are harder than others. I deal with anxiety and slight depression at times and it really puts a damper on my mood. It has been so hard to function past it and do regular things that I normally do. Going through this has made me realize that even though something or someone looks great on the outside, you don't really know what is really going on on the inside.
So of course, going through this rough time I've come to realize that, one, I want everyone to know that just because I put up good pictures and look "perfect" doesn't mean that I am; so don't you think for a second that you're missing something yourself to be perfect because you're not. And two, you can't really judge someone based off of what they choose to show you online and assume that there's nothing wrong because you don't really know the half of it. So with that being said, I choose to be less judgmental of others. I choose to look at others with a kinder heart in hopes of spreading some light on the fact that we don't really know someone or what they're going through until we get to know them. 

This goes for us also looking at social media and wishing that our lives were different and just as great as what we see online. That "fomo" or (fear of missing out) syndrome we all get when we wish we were doing what the other people were doing. Let that go and know that not everyone is what they seem to be. Not even me. Be kind to those you pass by on your way to work or those that you see online. Smile at someone, compliment someone on their outfit, say good morning, just do something nice because you don't really know how much of a difference that can make to someone. We all have our battles, big or small, but one thing is for sure; WE ARE ALL HUMAN. Be nice and treat others the way you want to be treated. Don't assume, don't pick yourself apart for not having a life like theirs. You are you, and that's all you need to be. As I'm working on me, work on you and remember to be kind. I hope you enjoy your Tuesday!



2 comments :

  1. So inspiring girl! Thanks for sharing :)

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  2. You will get through it Kina, it's part of growing up. Love you and I'm always here for you

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