Monday, August 22, 2016

Motivation Monday

We, (myself included) need to learn that we are not in control. We don't hold all the answers and we aren't supposed to. I have the hardest time trying to loosen my grip on my life and let it play out the way it's supposed to without going crazy. I'm so used to knowing everything and trying to figure out where I'm supposed to be or what move to take next; it's exhausting. What's even more exhausting is the anxiety I get when I continue to try and please everyone around me, meet their expectations and control my life. I've realized that it needs to stop and now. We're always on the go, consumed with everything around us and it's one thing after the other without a break. I've learned the past couple of months that it's not my job to know it all and I possibly can't control everything around me and how it's all supposed to play out because 1, I'm human and 2, I'm not God.
Some of the best moments are unexpected. They stem from spontaneity and simply just following your heart. Have you ever had a moment where you did something out of your normal comfort zone and it turned out to be one of the greatest decisions you ever made? Those are the best and they happen because you simply let go and were at peace with going with the flow of life. You may not have all the answers right now but you'll learn the purpose of some things and you'll learn a couple of lessons too. It's been rough but it feels so good and liberating to be able to unwind a little and let life take its course. You see, when we try and control everything we lose the essence of the sweet unexpected. If you knew everything that was going to happen it wouldn't be as sweet. Just remember to relax, nothing is under control.

1 comment :

  1. This is very hard to controls your emotion when you have lose any of your close one,no sympathy will work when it happens,But if you give some condolence messages to them who will deep pain,it will helps those to recover the pain and strong enough to handle the situations.


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