Monday, August 15, 2016

Motivation Monday

One of the toughest things I've probably ever had to come to realization with is that you can't please everyone. You can't impress everyone and you can't get everyone to like you. No matter how perfect you try to be or how much you try and fit to the standards that society has set. There's still going to be someone out there who doesn't like you or what you do for whatever reason. The silver lining here is that it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. They won't like something or someone because there's something deep down within themselves that they're lacking which is not allowing them to be less judgmental. You will literally torment yourself trying to fit into the mold that you think everyone around you feels like you should be. Do yourself a favor and stop giving a f*ck about what others think.
It has been so hard for me to actually follow what I feel like I should do without thinking in the back of my head about how people will perceive me; what their thoughts will be and if they will feel impressed with what I've accomplished. But you know the mistake with this? I'm living for others and not for myself and that's not a way to live. You want to make yourself happy and that's all you should care about. You have your own life for a reason and that is simply to enjoy YOURSELF. Make yourself proud and accomplish great things. Go for the things you want in life and go for those that make you happy. The last thing you want to do is live with intentions of pleasing those around you because those around you are living to please themselves. You need to be you and if someone doesn't like it then they're not meant for you or worry of your friendship. Live for yourself and not those around you.

1 comment :

  1. I honestly think this is what bloggers struggle about the most. It's a constant struggle of "what should I post that will receive the most likes." You're completely right. It's a very tough mindset to live for and we should definitely strive to live for ourselves unless if it's for humanitarian reasons.

    Maggie S.


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