Monday, October 19, 2015

Motivation Monday!

Happy Monday! Do you ever notice yourself making careful observations of what's around you? Do you start to realize certain things and realize that there is room for improvement. If so, then you are definitely on the right track for some good change. I find myself doing that often and looking for ways to improve my quality of life and those around me. I would say that this year has been the most self improvement that I've ever invested in myself in a long time. But I mean, it is what I needed. Now I can definitely say that although I haven't accomplished all of my goals, I'm on the right track to doing so and along the way I've tweaked and changed some things that needed fixing. With this change not only comes self change but also the exterior of your life; meaning the people that surround you. You ARE who you hang out with, and if you find yourself in a negative rut take a look around and see what it is that you are surround yourself with. Your surroundings definitely have an influence on you, whether you believe it or not.
That is why it is key for you to start forming relationships and friends with people that you want to be like. The hardest part is letting go of someone who you've known for so long and who has been such a huge part of your life. But save yourself the detrimental part and take care of YOU. There are people, even family and friends who are no good for you and although you don't have to shut them out of your life completely, a little distance will do you some good. You don't need the toxicity of some people; no matter how much you love them. Misery loves company and it is up to you whether or not you want to deal with negativity like that. Find people who think like you and want the same things out of life. Those are the people that are going to push you in the right direction. You will have such a bond in which all you can do is benefit from their friendship and bond. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. Remember, relationships and friendships should HELP YOU not hurt you!

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